When your kids get old enough to start making decisions, itâs difficult to know when to step back and when to take over. No one wants to be the helicopter mom, but you want to make sure your kids are getting the best opportunities. Summer vacation is one area where you want to get more involved.
Here are a few ways pre-planning your childâs summer benefits you.
1. You can make decisions together
When you have to make arrangements at the last-minute, oftentimes, youâre calling the shots without any input from the kiddos. But if you give yourself a little time, you can talk things over. Sure, some things wonât be negotiable, but you can let your kids choose whatever activities they can.
As soon as the options are available, collect all the possibilities and discuss them with your kids. Make sure you keep any scheduling conflicts in mind. It may help to grab a pencil and mark up a calendar. If you have more than one child, this may be a process that takes some time.
2. Your kids will have more opportunities
All the popular summer activities sell out fast. So, if your kids are going to be going to camp or taking some extracurriculars, youâll want to book them in advance. It could be the difference between adventure camp and knitting 101, so this is very important.
Stress the importance of choosing wisely because most activities cannot be changed after you make a deposit.
3. You can arrange more free time in the summer
Just like the activities, good childcare can sell out fast too. If youâre planning to put your kids into a program or book the most reputable nanny, youâll want to pre-plan. And as a bonus, you may be able to book more date nights if you make arrangements with a babysitter early in the season. You can even schedule a night every week or every other week to get away with your significant other.
4, You can finalize your vacation
If you book your vacation before you plan your kidsâ activities, you may regret it. For example, what happens if thereâs a big soccer tournament the week of your vacation? If you had booked the extracurriculars first, you could have worked your vacation around the big events.
Plan your kidsâ camps, sports practices and music lessons before you decide when to take your family vacation. This will also save you from spending money on weeks of programs you wonât be using.
5. You can plan for anything
When you know what your summer is going to look like, you can plan. For example, if youâre taking a road trip, you can pre-plan vehicle service. Things like this can easily get away from you, so try booking any important appointments as soon as you plan your summer activities. This may include doctorsâ visits, dentist appointments or even haircuts.
Planning doesnât solve every problem, but it can certainly help you get the most out of your summer. What are your best summer planning tips?
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