Richard says that while we may be initially attracted to our spouse because of how different their personality is to ours, it is those differences that cause conflict. The husband tries to get his wife to be more like him while the wife does the same with her husband. These attempts to change the other person lead to significant conflict.<\/p>\n Richard and his wife Linda learned from their own marriage troubles that something was not right. They then learned the 2 keys to a successful marriage were :<\/p>\n Next, there is a written exercise for husbands and wives to evaluate their marriage.<\/p>\n Chapter 2 is all about the opposite of unity-division and discord. This is a great chapter filled with concepts, scripture and personal examples from the author’s marriage.<\/p>\n Now you may be thinking, this is crazy, my spouse and I cannot agree on everything. I admit, I had the same thought. The author does not think that is possible either and says it is okay to disagree. In fact it is important for each of us to hold integrity with our true thoughts, beliefs and insights. The important thing is they don’t let it ruin their night or weekend, instead they get to unity by seeking God’s will.<\/p>\n There is also a chapter dedicated to handling disagreements and differences in opinion.<\/p>\n I think this is important and I think the whole concept can help us give up the fight to be right and seek peace and pray for God’s will instead. Who does not want more peace in their life?<\/p>\n Enter our giveaway below for a chance to win your own copy of The<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0Blessings of Unity<\/strong><\/em>. In the meantime check out this free eBook, Unshakeable<\/em><\/strong><\/a>, from the All for Jesus Ministry.<\/strong><\/p>\n The Blessings of Unity<\/strong><\/em> Book Giveaway on Mommy Ramblings Rules:<\/p>\n Only\u00a0one\u00a0entrant\u00a0per\u00a0mailing\u00a0address,\u00a0per\u00a0giveaway.\u00a0\u00a0If you have won a prize from our\u00a0sponsor Propeller \/ FlyBy Promotions in the last 30 days,\u00a0you are not eligible to win.\u00a0 Or if you have won the\u00a0same prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win it\u00a0again. Winner\u00a0is subject to eligibility verification.\u201d<\/p>\n Enter using the Rafflecopter widget below. Open to US and Canadian residents. Good Luck!!!<\/p>\n![\"blessings-of-unity-book\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mommyramblings.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Blessings-of-Unity-book.jpg?resize=208%2C320\")
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