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I think one of the biggest things we underestimate before we are parents, is the amount of “stuff” kids seem to need. From the nursery through childhood it seems that the “stuff” multiplies before our eyes. The gear, toys, clothing and more that seem to fill every corner of our home can sometimes seem overwhelming.

Finding a way to corral all the stuff seems to be a never-ending battle. I find the hardest part is the balance between functional and aesthetically pleasing. Plastic bins and totes always look messy and like we are packing all the time. They are good for putting things away in the basement or attic but not as long-term storage solutions.

Recently I was in Walmart and saw the display of plush characters from the new Disney Pixar movie Inside Out. If you are not aware of the movie, the characters represent the feelings and emotions we all carry inside. The 5 personified emotions in the movie are also plush characters called Sadness, Anger, Joy, Fear and Disgust. I picked up Sadness and Anger and I have to admit it gave me more than a chuckle to say, “I went to Walmart and left with Sadness and Anger.”

I think the characters are great and are a super springboard for kids to talk about their emotions with themselves, their parents, teachers or therapists. I frankly think they are even a good way for anyone to discuss their feelings. I was talking about it with some good friends and coworkers earlier today. We all thought if there should be a bin full of these plush emotions in every office. Then everyone could take what they were feeling out and sit down at a conference table to discuss and hash out some tension.

The characters are huggable and soft but I could not help while holding sadness to think it could be said I had to let my sadness go. The same could be said of anger or fear. It was very humorous but I think for children it is a very good way to discuss feelings and emotions in a constructive way. I know my children enjoyed holding the plush characters and talking about the emotions and how they felt. Even very young children who cannot fully articulate or express their emotions would benefit engaging with the characters because it would be a very visual representation of their feelings.

Back to storage, now that 2 new plush characters have moved home with us, and I am sure the other 3 will soon follow, I wanted to find a way to contain our emotions. Sorry I could not resist that! I needed to find a storage solution that was good for all of my kid’s plush toys.

I found some plans on-line that looked really cool. They were storage boxes made from 2 by 4s that were sturdy, had wheels and a handle. The boxes would not be outgrown and literally could follow your child to college and beyond. I thought that the 2 by 4’s could be stained or painted and immediately got my husband involved. s

We went out and bought ten 2 by 4’s, screws, pulls and casters. We had wood glue and our tools so we headed home. I stained the 2 by 4’s with a green water based stain. You will need to have a saw, drill, 4″ screws if you are not using a Kreg Jig and if you are you will need 2.5″ self tapping screws, wood filler, wood glue, 8 casters and 2 pulls. You will need to get six 10′ 2 by 4’s and two 8′ 2 by 4’s.

After the wood was stained and dry, it was time to make all the cuts we needed for the 2 boxes. We needed to cut the 2 by 4’s into the following lengths:

8-16″ for legs
12-14″ front/back
12-18″ sides
12-21″ bottom

With all the pieces cut, we needed to assemble the boxes. You could use 4 inches screws to go through the 2 by 4’s or a Kreg Jig which makes it possible to screw through pocket holes. The advantage of the Kreg Jig is that the screws are concealed and it creates the strongest joint. We chose to use the Kreg Jig to secure our boxes.

We used wood glue and screws to attach the pieces.

After all the sides are built and assembled you are ready to build the bottom. Take the 6 pieces and glue and screw to secure.

Attach the caster wheels. We are changing these wheels to something more heavy duty since the boxes can hold so much weight, we want stronger than a 50 lb limit on them. You never know what our son will put in these boxes in the future.

Then I touched up all the stain. I am going to put 2 coats of poly on but did not have the time yet.

I will update when I have coated them with poly and when we have the second box built and finished. We are going to move them to the bottom of our son’s closet. He has a large closet with double doors and these 2 boxes are going on the bottom and will fit very nicely. We added the handle and then filled with some plush friends including Anger and Sadness.

So now we have a box to put our Anger and Sadness in and I know that soon we will be putting Joy, Fear and Disgust in too. Have you see Inside Out? Let me know if you did and how you liked it. If you decide to make these storage boxes let me know how they turn out, or if you have any questions. I hope you do, then you can contain your emotions too!

The school supplies are labeled, the backpacks are packed and the lunch boxes are full of healthy lunch snacks. Yet, as the kids lay nestled all snug in their beds, I am begging and pleading for time to slow down. You see this mom is not ready for summer to end, seems it just started and now it’s the end! It doesn’t seem fair, how could it be over? We didn’t even do most of the things on our list, I feel full of mommy guilt and I’m shaking my fist!

This thing we call time is spinning too fast, in the blink of an eye, our kids grow right up. The time we thought we had passes us by, before we know it they’ll be moving on and saying goodbye. Childhood is far too fleeting and bittersweet for my taste. You see, I know how quickly it passes, this is my second time through it and so I know how it goes. First time parents think they have years and years and the time will go slow and not disappear. However, those of us who have been here before, know all too well, how quickly time goes.

We moms who were young enough to start over again with a new set of babes share a secret between us. We will tell you don’t blink because if you do, a lifetime will pass and you won’t believe it’s true. It’s scary and real, but we have to accept it, life is too short and over too quickly. We try to hold on kicking and screaming to push back the hours, days and the months. We want to just slow it all down but we know it’s futile, we don’t stand a chance but we try nonetheless in our warrior stance.

So, I’m not thrilled that another school year is thrust upon us. Unless some magical power comes over me tonight and somehow I am able to win the fight and turn back the time and start summer again, I will have to grin and rejoice at the dawn of the day and send my children along to start a new year. It’s harder than hard since my baby starts school and I just want to hold him and not let him go, but I know that he has much to learn and explore. The best thing comes at the end of the day, I can hold him as he shares all he did that first day. I will hold him and smile and laugh as he does. He will not see the tears fall from my eyes, instead I will secretly wipe them and treasure the moment and everything in it.

I urge you my friends to understand that no matter your age or the stage you are in, it will pass all too quickly without warning and leave you wondering just where the years went. You won’t have an answer, you will not even believe how fast time can fly. It’s then you will understand all too well that we’re not in control. We live a life, then it’s over and hope those left behind are filled with great memories of love from that sweet time we did share. So love on your family and friends while you can because time, is not something that can be bought, stopped or stalled. Time is the constant we know will keep moving, so live every day to the fullest you can because time waits for no one and isn’t your friend.